Do Sex Dolls Feel Real？
Do sex dolls feel real? For newcomers to silicone dolls, the most difficult part isn’t the purchase itself, but making a decision amidst the unknown. There’s a lot of information online, but there aren’t many voices from actual “first-time users.”
Therefore, we conducted this special interview — allowing a complete novice user to personally share his thoughts, concerns, and feelings about his first experience with a silicone doll.
Special thanks to Mr_Lewd from X for sharing.
I. First Contact & Motivation (Why did you try it?)
A: To be honest, my first time with a Doll wasn’t until very recently. I was gifted a Doll from a Company on X that was kind enough to give me one for free because I went to an event & helped promote their Dolls. At the time, I never thought I would have one and I wasn’t going to pass on the opportunity to own one & get to experience it. At the time, I was addicted to porn, that was my only form of sexual comfort & release because I’ve been single for so long. So this was literally a life changing experience for me.
How did you first learn about sex dolls?
A: I first learned about Sex Dolls a few years ago during a random google search. At the time, it was a pipe dream for me. Something I really wanted to try but due to my disability. It would be something I honest was 100% convinced at the time that I would never get to truly experience. To me, Sex Dolls were only really meant for people who had the financial means to invest in something like that. It was an experience that I kinda just watched from a far. I would watch videos of other people enjoying them wishing that I could enjoy it myself.
1. What was your first impression of sex dolls before you actually bought/interacted with one?
A: My first impression of Sex Dolls was very mixed. I didn’t know anything about them at all. I didn’t realize at the time, that there were different models. Different heights and sizes. I thought they were this very generic thing that people would buy to use here and there. But the more time I spent looking into Dolls and the different types there was available, it made me really want one more and more.
2. Was there a specific "trigger" that ultimately made you decide to buy one?
A: I’ll never forget the day I saw My First Sex Doll. And when I say that I mean the Doll that I truly felt was made for me. I’m someone who loves Big Boobs & a Big Butt. But I never seen a Doll that offered both at the same time. To me it was either one or the other and I felt that even in the world of Sex Dolls, there wasn’t really one for me. Until I realized that there was a category of Sex Dolls that is literally for people like me that loves Thick Women, and that was BBW Style Dolls. Ever since that day, I’ve dived head first into looking into BBW Dolls and trying to find the perfect Doll for me.
3. What were your biggest hesitations or concerns before purchasing?
A: For me personally it wasn’t a matter of not wanting one, because I wanted one & I wanted one so badly. Yes I have roommates, but I have my own room and personal space. The problem was my income unfortunately. I’m disabled with a bad back so I only make very little a month in terms of income. It was really a heart breaking moment for me. Because I went from never thinking Id ever own one. To finding out that there are Dolls in the exact category that I want. Which in turn re-sparked my desire and drive to really want one. Just to find out that because of my finical situation, Id could never be lucky enjoy to enjoy my own Doll. I was heart broken and for a time, I even gave up on searching for one.
Expectations vs. Reality (First Experience)
1. What was your first reaction when you saw the doll for the first time? Do sex dolls feel real?
A: Do Sex Dolls Feel Real? To be honest I was completely blown away the first time I was looking at the Doll because I didn’t really know what to expect at all. I knew I was getting a Doll and a saw slight photos of her. But I can tell you now from experience, photos mean absolutely nothing! They can never really do the Doll justice when your looking at her for the first time. The life-like feeling & look of the Doll was something that blew me away. I was not ready at all to how realistic she felt and I don’t just mean sexually. Just touching her legs, or touching her hands. The feel is so unreal that I was almost ashamed that I had low expectations of a Sex Doll. I expected her to be eh at best, I didn’t know what TPE was or Silicone. So to be I was almost confident that She was going to be a very generic and basic Sex Doll.
2. What aspects of the actual doll were similar to your previous expectations? What aspects were completely different?
A: It was such a weird time & experience for me when I first got the Doll. When I first learned that the Doll I was getting was made of TPE & not Silicone, I really thought she wasn’t going to be this over the top experience. The only true complaint that I’ve had with the Doll is the wigs. It did keep coming off during my sessions with her. But it wasn’t this make or break type of experience. Because I still enjoyed every second of it. It was more of an OCD thing wanting it to be this perfect experience.
But at the same time, this is where things were also very different for me with my experience with her. And I don’t mean in a bad like wtf way, This was truly out of body experience. Because I didn’t need to be overly gentle. I didn’t need to hold back or ask to use the back door! I could just go at it however I saw fit which is the best thing about this whole experience.
3. Did the actual tactile sensation during your first touch exceed or fall short of your expectations?
A: This is where things was really going to be a make it or break it for the experience for me with the Doll. Because if I didn’t like how she felt to the touch, I wasn’t going to enjoy the sexual experience at all. And to be honest that was a big fear of mine because from what I understood, TPE was not as high quality as Silicone. So what I expected was for her to feel rubbery and off. But I was completely wrong and I would highly suggest others do the same and don’t judge a book by its cover. Do no get discouraged or second guess if TPE is worth it. Because while I still haven’t experience a Full Silicone doll.
The TPE Doll that I do have felt EXTREMELY REAL. Even down to the details like her vanes slightly showing through her skin texture. This proved to me personally that TPE Dolls are greatly misunderstood and overlooked because they aren’t made of Silicone. But from my personal experience, She feels extremely real to the touch.
4. Which emotional state best describes your feelings during your first use? (Nervous / Curious / Excited / Calm / Surprised) Was there any particular detail that left a strong impression on you?
A: At first it was a very nervous experience for me. I didn’t know if I had to be very gentle. I didn’t know what was considered to rough or moving her legs or arms to much & risk breaking or damaging her. This probably continued for a good 25-30 minutes into my first session with her. But then it quickly passed and turned into pure excited and curious all at once. Once I got into the grove with her, all that fear and anxiety melted away very quickly. I no longer was scared and my natural sexual urges and energy kicked in.
I wanted to push the Dolls limits. I wanted to just take control & be primal. My dominate side kicked in & it ended with being extremely surprised. I was tired but in a good way. I was so overly stimulated by having that rush of an experience that I laid there.
III. Physical Experience Level (Non-explicit, focusing on sensations)
1. Regarding "feel, weight, and softness," what are your most genuine feelings?
A: The overall experience was really kinda out of this world. Not to sound weird or anything but it really was for me. She felt so soft and she had some weight to her. And at first I’ll admit I thought to myself that her being too heavy was going to be a turnoff. That I wasn’t going to want to deal with moving her around and all that struggle after being physically and sexually exhausted. But her weight made it even better because it felt so real and like a genuine experience that I would have had with a partner or girlfriend. During the session with her, I actually grew to appreciate the weight because I was able to really toss her into position & really let my dominate side show & for once in my life, not want to or need to hold back.
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2. Which designs do you think are closest to a "real human"?
A: To be completely honest and this is probably going to sound stupid, but I went right for her big breast and nice butt. I wanted to feel the main attraction lol. I wanted to just dive right in and see if she really did feel like a real woman would feel in my hands. And I wasn’t disappointed at all! I will say the greatest feeling about all of this, was how feel and soft her Breast felt in my hands. And Her butt felt equally good! Soft and squishy just how I like it. And when I slapped her butt it sounded extremely good and real!
3. Were there any aspects you initially didn't care about but found important after actually experiencing them?
A: Yea actually, and it was that annoying wig lol. It kept falling off when I would slam into her too hard and it especially kept falling off during moving her into different positions. But once everything was all said and done & I’ve completed the dirty deed lol. I actually grew to appreciate the fact that her wig fell off. Because when I was done, I really enjoyed laying with her. IT felt really good an almost like a form of aftercare in BDSM where I took care of her afterwards. I wanted to just relax by her side. I actually positioned her where she was laying on her side with her head on my chest. And I almost can’t describe how comforting that was. It was more than a sexual experience for me. This was like having a real woman with me, and I straighten her hair and enjoyed that one on one time with her.
4. Were there any aspects you needed to adapt to during use?
A: I wouldn’t say it was a need in terms of the Doll itself. But it was more of an adjustment for me personally. At the very beginning my excited kept smashing with my anxiety that I was being too rough. That I was going to damage or break her. And that fear in a way is still with me to this day. Because that rush that I felt, that omg this is happening feeling that I got that made my hair stand up. That happens every single time I open the box that she is in. Every time I look at her I get that overwhelming excited feeling that then takes over and my fears go away.
IV. Psychological Changes and Reflections
1. Have your understanding of loneliness or companionship changed before and after using the sex doll?
A: Oh my god it extremely changed because of the experience with this Doll.! I have been single for over 5 years now. My last relationship ended pretty badly and it shattered my confidence in myself and dating & it especially killed my confidence sexually as a man. But after this Doll, it changed everything for me.
Because this made me feel wanted again. It made me feel powerful and sexually desired again. I know that sounds crazy because shes a Doll. But I have a whole new view on Dolls and the companionship they offer. Yes it could just be a sexual thing for a lot of people. But I strongly believe that there are many guys out there like me.
And this wasn’t just a sexual experience. This Doll healed me in ways I didn’t even realized I needed until I was done. & it wasn’t because the sex was so over the top and great, which it was lol. But it was how it made me feel afterwards. Just laying there with her, having her head on my bed. I felt wanted even on the most basic emotional level and I didn’t realize how much I needed that until now.
2. Have your stereotypes about sex dolls changed?
A: They have 100% changed my entire view on Dolls because of this one experience with this Doll. And granted this was with a random Doll that was given to me and not a Doll I bought personally for me and looks exactly how I wanted her to look. Before I was convinced that this was just a quick sexually experience. Something that people would just use and then put away and be done to have that quick needed stress relief. But now, its more than that.
Or at the very least its more than that to me. Because this isn’t just about sex.. When your getting one of these Dolls, sex is just an added bonus. You getting like the ultimate girlfriend or wife experience. Someone who doesn’t judge you. Someone who wont hurt you. Someone you can go to sleep to and wake up to & still feel excited and happy and not just in a sexual way. Yes of course the sex is part of it duh. But when you dig deeper and the more you lay with a Doll and have time together that isn’t just sexual. Your going to realize that she offers so much more than sex. Just like I realized it afterwards.
3. Looking back, do you think the first experience was worthwhile?
A: Yes without a doubt in my mind the first experience was worth it. In a way I was angry with myself for not doing this sooner. I could saved up and bought a Doll sooner. I could have healed sooner and had this wonderful experience a lot sooner had I not been so on the fence and judgmental about it. Because at the time in my mind, I thought to myself who the hell would spend so much money for just sex.
Not realizing how much more these Dolls have to offer you. Its not what you think, its not going to be just about sex and I thing when people realize that, they will become more and more open to having one for themselves.
4. If you were to give advice to someone trying it for the first time, what would you say?
A: If I had one thing to say to anyone who’s looking to get into having their own Sex Doll, it would would be to just do it! I know how cliche that sounds but I really mean it. Let go of your fears and just jump head first into this experience. Even if your buying one of the more experience models and they can be a bit costly.
It will still be worth it, SHE will still be worth it. Because you can watch as many videos as you want, you can scroll through hundreds of photos. You can talk on forums & chat with buddies. But I’m telling you right now, nothing will prepare you for the true experience your going to have with your very own Doll.
VII. Reflections After the First Experience
1. If you were to give advice to someone experiencing this for the first time, what would you say?
A: It would be to embrace her! Let go of those fears that your going to break her or damage her in any way. Let go of that “Idk if this is for me” fears that I know your going to have because I did. This is going to change your life, she is going to change your life and its going to change in so many positive ways. The way she makes your feel during.
The way she makes you feel afterwards. And im not just talking about the sexual joy of getting off. Trust me its going to hit you and its going to hit you hard. Because not going to fully realize how badly you need this level of companionship and trust. Until you have your very own Doll for yourself and she speaks to you and makes your feel things you didn’t even realize you needed.
2. After having this first experience, how do you think you are different now?
A: I’m different in so many ways its hard to put into words and I’m really not trying to sounds cliche at all. I literally went from watching porn daily and sometimes touching myself multiple times a day. To only wanting my Doll and only needing her for that release once or twice every few days. I smile when I come home from work now. I;m smiling when I leave for work now because I kiss her goodbye when I leave. I give her an exciting kiss and hung when I come home. Because I feel like I’m not just coming home to a random Sex Doll. I’m coming home to her, I’m coming home to feel wanted and accepted. And there is no greater feeling ever.
At the end - Do Sex Dolls Feel Real？
Do Sex Dolls Feel Real？If you’re considering trying a sex doll for the first time, you might find some common ground in this interview and gain a clearer understanding of what truly matters to you. Everyone’s experience is different, but only by daring to try can you find the option that’s best for you.
Special thanks to Mr_Lewd from X for sharing his insights. You can also follow his X account to discover more relatable topics or discuss new questions and explore the real experiences of using sex dolls together.
Mr_Lewd from X link: https://x.com/MrLewd07
